Trashname, My first time posting on here but your story brought me out of my read only mode. I truly am touched by your story. I've been a coach for 30 years and have seen a few of my ex players fall into the "One bad day" situation. I have kept up with many of them over the years. I am glad to say some learned, grew, and moved forward in a positive direction. Sadly some didn't. As a coach my goal is to reach and develop them not only as football players but more importantly as young men. I hope that when my day is done I can look back and say I had a positive role in their lives. I hope you and your wife continue to grow, cherish and love each other.